Giving Back Full Circle
Riles' Journey at the J
For Riles and his family, the Merage JCC has always been more than just a place for programs—it's been a second home.
Riles first stepped through the doors of the JCC at the age of five, when his mother enrolled him in Club J, the afterschool program that became a foundational part of his childhood. That one decision opened the door to a world of growth, opportunity and connection. Over the years, he became deeply involved in Camp Haverim, Global Teens, Young Philanthropists, and numerous volunteering initiatives—experiences that shaped not only his skills, but also his sense of identity and belonging.
"The JCC has helped us deepen our Judaism and form lifelong friendships," says Riles. "It has truly been a second home."
One of Riles' most meaningful memories came last summer, when he was brought on as an LIT (Leader in Training) at Camp Haverim—the very camp where he grew up and made countless memories as a camper.
"It was such a full-circle moment," Riles shared. "Getting the chance to return as a staff member was incredibly special. I was able to grow, give back, and pass on valuable lessons to the next generation of campers—just like my counselors once did for me."
Riles will return again this summer as a camp counselor, continuing to build on that experience and stay connected to the community that has helped shaped him.
As he navigates college decisions—with his heart set on UCI—Riles was honored to be waitlisted and plans to attend IVC and transfer through the TAG program if needed. He was also accepted to Chapman, Loyola Marymount, UC Riverside, UC Merced, and several Cal States—an accomplishment that reflects the confidence and resilience shaped by his JCC journey.
"The JCC's programs are a true example of what you put in is what you get out," Riles reflects.
"Once I embraced everything the J had to offer, it led to amazing programs, opportunities, and friendships."
His story is one of full-circle impact—and a beautiful testament to the power of community, continuity, and heart.
The Impact of Community
Shira's Life Shaped at the J
When the Alterman family, moved to Orange County in 2008, they brought with them not just a newborn named Shira, but also a deep appreciation for Jewish community life. Laura had already been involved with the JCC in San Francisco, so it was only natural to seek out the Merage JCC as a home for their growing family in a new city.
From the vey beginning, the J became a hub of learning, friendship, and meaningful experiences for Shira. She attended preschool and TK at the J, took her first swimming lessons here, and spent her summers at camp. Over the years, Shira took part in countless J programs—dance, sports, JStage, and the Maccabi games, which she participated in from the ages 13 to 16. The family even hosted teens from Denver and welcomed an Israeli Shinshin into their home, building connections that spanned cities and continents.
"The J has added tremendously to our Jewish lives," says Laura. "The opportunities for Shira, the people we've met, the culture and events we've attended—it has all been an incredible complement to what our synagogue offers."
The family has countless cherished memories: Shira's travels for Maccabi and Global Teen programs, volunteering at events, and attending films, guest lectures, and Israeli celebrations. One moment that stands out was the JCC's community vigil held after October 7—an evening of reflection, unity, and resilience. "It was deeply moving, and a reminder of the strength of this community," says Laura.
Today, Shira is a thriving teen with a deep sense of identity, community, and purpose—thanks in no small part to the role the J has played in her life.
"All the programs we've done have been positive," says Laura. "The J has been a meaningful, impactful part of out lives."
A Home Away From Home
The Gayton Family
For Rachel and Ryan Gayton, what began as a six-month JCC membership they won at a preschool auction soon evolved into something far more meaningful—a vibrant, supportive community that their entire family now considers a second home.
While Ryan enjoys the fitness facilities and Rachel has found camaraderie and strength in Arms, Abs, & Booty classes with friends, it's their daughter Zoe's journey that truly illustrates the heart of their JCC experience.
Zoe joined JStage in 2021 as a quiet, anxious 11-year-old, hesitant about public speaking and performing. But under the thoughtful and empowering guidance of JStage Director Carina Morales, Nicole, and the team, Zoe began to thrive. Starting with small roles, she gradually took on longer parts and grew into a confident, passionate performer.
"JStage has truly brought Zoe out of her shell," Rachel shares. "Carina and Nicole have created a warm, encouraging second home where Zoe feels both supported and pushed to reach her full potential. It's been incredible to watch."
The Gayton family now spends time at the J nearly every day. Both kids, Zoe and Grant, take pickleball lessons, Rachel and Ryan stay active and connected, and the family regularly engages in community events. Volunteering with JStage has also deepened their bonds with other JCC families.
"We've built lasting friendships and strengthened our connection to Jewish life," Rachel says. "Whether it's through fitness, the arts, or meaningful programs, the J helps keep us grounded—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We're so grateful for everything the J brings into our lives."
For the Gayton family, the J isn't just a center—it's a place where their daughter found her voice, and where they all have found a joyful, meaningful sense of belonging.